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50 Wedding Shoe Game Questions

50 shoe game questions for the reception, with tips for running it well.

October 16, 2026

The shoe game needs no props beyond what the couple is already wearing. They sit back to back, each holding one of their own shoes and one of their partner’s. The host asks a question and they raise the shoe of whoever fits the answer.

Tips for a good shoe game

  • Keep it to 15 to 20 questions. It should take about 10 minutes.
  • Ask the funny questions in the middle and finish with a sweet one.
  • Have the host read loudly and pause after each one so the room can react.
  • Put up a sign so guests know what's happening.

50 shoe game questions

  1. Who said 'I love you' first?
  2. Who is the better cook?
  3. Who is messier?
  4. Who takes longer to get ready?
  5. Who is the better driver?
  6. Who spends more money?
  7. Who falls asleep first?
  8. Who snores louder?
  9. Who is more stubborn?
  10. Who apologises first?
  11. Who is funnier?
  12. Who is more romantic?
  13. Who is the bigger foodie?
  14. Who is more likely to get lost?
  15. Who wakes up earlier?
  16. Who is the better dancer?
  17. Who hogs the blanket?
  18. Who is more competitive?
  19. Who is the better kisser?
  20. Who made the first move?
  21. Who is more likely to cry at a film?
  22. Who controls the remote?
  23. Who has the worse taste in music?
  24. Who is more organised?
  25. Who is the bigger kid?
  26. Who is better with money?
  27. Who would survive a zombie apocalypse?
  28. Who takes more selfies?
  29. Who is always late?
  30. Who is the better singer?
  31. Who has more clothes?
  32. Who is the pickier eater?
  33. Who is more likely to adopt a pet without asking?
  34. Who is the better gift-giver?
  35. Who is more likely to get a speeding ticket?
  36. Who said 'yes' first?
  37. Who is more patient?
  38. Who is the bigger social butterfly?
  39. Who would win in an argument?
  40. Who is the morning person?
  41. Who plans the dates?
  42. Who is more likely to forget a birthday?
  43. Who is the better texter?
  44. Who gets hangry?
  45. Who has the weirdest habit?
  46. Who is the better travel buddy?
  47. Who will change the first nappy, litter tray or plant pot?
  48. Who will do the dishes tonight?
  49. Who is luckier to have the other?
  50. Who loves the other more?

From the shop

Shoe Game Questions & Sign

The 50 questions as a host sheet, a printable sign that explains the game to guests, and a short script for the host.

See the template