The short answer for 2026: most guests give S$180 to S$300 at a hotel wedding in Singapore. The rule underneath is simple. Cover what the couple pays for your seat, then add a little if you are close.
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Wedding ang bao rates 2026 by venue type
Per guest, in Singapore dollars. These are the usual ranges for covering your seat.
| Venue type | Weekday lunch | Weekday dinner | Weekend lunch | Weekend dinner |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Void deck, community club or clan hall HDB function rooms, community clubs, clan associations |
80 to 120 | 80 to 120 | 80 to 120 | 80 to 120 |
| Restaurant, country club or value hotel Peach Garden, Orchid Country Club, Furama, Village Hotels |
130 to 170 | 140 to 180 | 140 to 180 | 150 to 190 |
| Mid-range hotel M Hotel, Carlton, Goodwood Park, Mount Faber Peak, Grand Shanghai |
170 to 220 | 190 to 240 | 190 to 240 | 210 to 260 |
| Premium hotel Grand Hyatt, Shangri-La, Mandarin Oriental, Fullerton, Chijmes |
220 to 280 | 240 to 300 | 230 to 300 | 260 to 310 |
| Luxury hotel or iconic venue Marina Bay Sands, Raffles, St. Regis, Capella, Ritz-Carlton |
260 to 360 | 290 to 400 | 290 to 380 | 310 to 430 |
Weekend dinners cost the most, often S$20 to S$50 more per guest than a weekday at the same hotel. Many venues also charge more on auspicious dates and public holiday eves.
Ang bao rates at popular wedding venues
What a seat costs at well-known Singapore venues in 2026, worked out from each venue’s published banquet packages: the price per table with service charge and GST, divided by 10. Use it as your floor.
| Venue | Weekday lunch (S$) | Weekend dinner (S$) |
|---|---|---|
| Capella Singapore | 360 | 390 to 430 |
| The Singapore Edition | 310 to 400 | 350 to 400 |
| The St. Regis Singapore | 320 to 350 | 350 to 380 |
| Raffles Hotel Singapore | 310 to 340 | 310 to 370 |
| Marina Bay Sands | 290 | 350 |
| JW Marriott Singapore South Beach | 290 | 310 to 340 |
| The Ritz-Carlton, Millenia | 250 to 280 | 290 to 360 |
| Pan Pacific Orchard | 260 to 360 | 270 to 360 |
| Conrad Singapore Marina Bay | 270 to 300 | 280 to 340 |
| Shangri-La Singapore | 240 to 270 | 270 to 330 |
| Andaz Singapore | 290 | 280 to 310 |
| Mandarin Oriental Singapore | 260 | 280 to 300 |
| The Fullerton Hotel Singapore | 280 | 290 to 300 |
| Grand Hyatt Singapore | 240 to 280 | 260 to 300 |
| Hilton Singapore Orchard | 260 | 270 to 290 |
| Parkroyal Collection Pickering | 230 | 260 to 290 |
| Parkroyal Collection Marina Bay | 220 to 240 | 280 |
| Sofitel Singapore Sentosa | 220 to 310 | 250 to 340 |
| Chijmes Hall | 210 to 260 | 230 to 270 |
| Singapore Marriott Tang Plaza | – | 230 to 260 |
| Goodwood Park Hotel | 220 | 240 |
| Alkaff Mansion | 200 | 220 to 240 |
| Grand Shanghai | 210 to 260 | 210 to 260 |
| Mount Faber Peak | 180 | 210 |
| Orchid Country Club | 150 to 160 | 160 to 180 |
The etiquette, in one list
- Cover your seat. The baseline is what the couple pays for your seat: the venue's price per table, plus service charge and GST, divided by 10.
- Then add for closeness. Colleagues give about the seat cost. Friends add 10 to 20%. Close family often gives well above it.
- Bringing a partner. Double it. Each seat is paid for.
- Lucky numbers. Even amounts, often ending in 8 (S$188, S$268, S$288). Avoid 4 anywhere in the amount: give S$238 or S$258, not S$240 or S$248.
- Can't make it. Not expected, but a kind gesture: S$50 to S$200 depending on how close you are. RSVP early so they can release your seat.
- Church or ROM only. With no banquet, S$50 to S$100, or a gift.
- Malay weddings. Usually a smaller green packet: S$20 to S$50, more if you are close.
- Indian weddings. Amounts commonly end in 1 (S$101, S$151, S$201).
- How to give. Clean notes in a red packet with your name on it, handed in at the reception table. PayNow is increasingly fine, but check first.
Tea ceremony ang bao
At the tea ceremony it is the elders who give: an ang bao or jewellery for the couple, after they are served tea. Amounts vary a lot between families. Common ranges:
| Who | Common amount |
|---|---|
| Grandparents | S$88 to S$188 |
| Parents | S$288 to S$888, or jewellery |
| Uncles, aunts and other relatives | S$50 to S$288, or jewellery |
| The couple, to younger siblings who serve them | A small ang bao, often ending in 8 |
What to write on a wedding ang bao
Write your name on the back so the couple knows who it is from. On the front, a four-character blessing is a nice touch:
| Blessing | Pinyin | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 百年好合 | bai nian hao he | A hundred years of harmony |
| 永结同心 | yong jie tong xin | Bound together with one heart |
| 白头偕老 | bai tou xie lao | Grow old together |
| 天作之合 | tian zuo zhi he | A match made in heaven |
| 早生贵子 | zao sheng gui zi | May you soon have children |
If you are the couple
Ang bao rarely covers the whole dinner. Attendance is never 100%, and the venue is paid before the ang bao comes in. Budget for the full banquet, and treat ang bao as money back.
From the shop
Wedding Ang Bao Tracker
Log every ang bao as you open them, see the total against the banquet bill with GST, and keep a list of what you gave at other weddings.
Sources: YouTrip: Singapore wedding ang bao rates 2026; The Money Bees: wedding ang bao rates 2026.
